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Tuesday, November 13, 2007

It was meant to be

I'm playing catch up on some tags. Here's one I'd almost forgotten...this one's for you Shaka...so here goes!



1. Where did you meet?
Our first meeting was on a youth temple trip to the Washington DC temple. I was sitting on the bus looking out the window at people getting on and saw him and said to my friend, “who’s that kid?” I’d never seen him before, and she had no idea, so I just forgot about it. Then the next day everyone went to the Lincoln Monument, it was raining so my friends stayed on the bus, but I couldn’t pass up this opportunity to see the monument of my favorite president, so I went alone. On my way back some kid ran down the steps after me and asked if he could walk me back to the bus…it was HIM. Too weird. I was nervous, so I forgot his name and practically ran to the bus. He was great though, and we ended up sitting by each other later…and then “going out” for several months.
2. What was the first thing you said to your husband?
I probably told him my name, and something lame like “oh I know your mom from girls camp.”
3. Where was your first date?
My senior reception. We really hit it off on the bus trip, but he lived an hour away, so we'd talk on the phone for hours every night (yikes those phone bills!). And since he was my "boyfriend" I asked him to be my date for the reception. We had a great time (my sister let me borrow her red Mitsubishi Eclipse for the night…thanks laina!)


4. Where was your first kiss?
He was about to leave on a long family vacation and I drove out to see him. We walked to the movie theater, he gave me a gift – a Blues Traveler tape, and in it a note I wasn’t allowed to read until I left. On the walk back I could tell he was nervous and trying to figure out what to do, we ended up standing outside by my car for a long time, until finally he kissed me. It was ruined by the neighbor taking out his trash, but we were just kids…so it was awkward anyway! The note was about his plans to kiss me, he figured he couldn’t back out if I had the note!
5. Did you have a long courtship/engagement?
Uhmmm…I'd say so! We dated for the whole summer after I graduated high school. Then broke up, but it was easy going and mutual. I went to Ricks, he’s a "younger man," so he finished high school and went to Utah State University. Then we both went on missions and actually stayed friends and kinda wrote on our missions (like two letters). I got home a few months before him so I was ready and waiting to welcome him back to the real world when he returned (his younger sister kinda pushed us into hanging out together, thanks Jess!). We were inseparable from that moment on. And got married 4 years later (we stayed in Connecticut and finished up college together).
6. Where did you get engaged?
On my last day of college classes, before all the graduation junk, he took me to a park by the school for a celebration picnic. Again the nervousness showed, and he broke out the little gift box and popped the question. And the coolest part was that a newspaper photographer for the Hartford Courant caught the “yes” moment on camera, so it was published in the newspaper the next day! We thought that was appropriate after so many years of dating our engagement should be a news worthy event!
7. How did the reception go?
More than fabulous - it helps to have your own personal Martha Stewart for a sister! It was outdoors with tents and a dance floor my dad created. There was a local fireworks show that night, so we had fireworks for free! It was seriously a reception you’d dream about with all the roses and flickering candle lanterns etc. but these few pics can't even begin to do it justice.
8. How was the honeymoon?
We had a “prima-note” as my husband calls it, the first night. We just went away for the weekend to New London, Ct. (crazy town we think everyone we met were aliens hiding in human bodies like in Men in Black). But we were waiting for our real honeymoon until the next month when his aunt’s summer cottage on Cape Cod was available - where we had a great time biking, swimming, exploring, visiting art galleries, shopping, eating great food...all the fun stuff you do on Cape Cod!

8 comments:

Traci said...

So fun to read these and get to know you better!!!
You are from Connecticut I remember you saying a while back on a post of mine. Where abouts??
I have only been to the Cape once and I was 7 months pregnant in the month of August so it was extremely hot. Would love to go back not pregnant and take it all in.

laina kay said...

Aww... sweet. Never heard that story about him escorting you back to the bus!

The Eclipse... I loved that car! How nice of me to let you borrow it! Tee hee! So 90's!

Love, love, love the first kiss story! How adorable that he wrote a note to make sure he'd follow through. That's determination and so cute that put that much forethought into it!

Aww shucks... Martha, I wish! Doesn't anyone have a shot of those tables before the silly boys shredded the rose petals? Or how about a shot of the lanterns lit after dark? Still love those! It was a nice night. My kids adore listening to your wedding cd repeatedly, and I don't mind a bit!

Cute shots from the Cape. I don't think I've seen all those pictures before.

It was meant to be! Such a cute couple...

LaughAtMe-Laurel said...

Laina - I know! I wish I had some digital shots of the whole set up after dark. Somehow I don't. Do you? I know you were a little busy playing wedding planner AND mother, so I doubt you do. I'm disappointed that I don't have more shots of just the decorations. They really were amazing.

Oh...and Shaka...I know of a great gift you could give me (you know...just for being your wonderful sister) A DVD of the wedding video you shot! Maybe we can work on this at Christmas time.

Megan said...

That was so much fun to read and get to know more about you. Where did you serve a mission? I went to California Carlsbad Spanish Speaking. It was awesome. It is always fun to learn more about my blogger friends.

april said...

this was fun to read. somehow i missed that you guys had dated for so long. what fun to have such history and pictures of each other together as teenagers! the reception looks beautiful (my family was in town that night)and i love your CD too!

laina - you could give martha a run for her money. you are amazing.

Laurel said...

That is really the longest engagement I have every heard of for a mormon couple. Wow! 4 years. Ours was like 6 months.

I have never spent much time back east, and your pictures of Cape Cod have me absolutely salivating. I want to go! Shoot I'd even settle for New London at this point. I'd hang out with the aliens!

P.S. Your wedding really was beautiful.

Michelle said...

That was way fun to read. You guys sure were meant to be, FER SURE!! Too cute.

Shaka said...

i'm finally here and reading your long awaited tag! it was fun to read. i was gone during your dating years so that was interesting to read. i never knew your story! i just knew you guys kind of dated and then got back together after missions. fun stuff!